Bia:so important question:
Are you planning on asking your girl to marry you in the next year? 6 months?
Nig:definitely before end of 2013, most likely summer/early fall
Bia:*sigh*
Nig:haha, why the sigh?
Bia:cause it seems so final
like death, taxes and marriage
and we barely hang out now... when you have a fiancee, all hoes in your life will be relegated to ex hoes
i'm just saying its going to be sad to be an ex hoe
me:haha
Oh bia
relegated = good word
Nig:but you're not an ex hoe
Bia:in your future fiancees eyes
all women are hoes... soon to be ex hoes
i dont think you will be allowed to have girl besties.
you're not even allowed to have them now
Bia:you're going to meet her soon
Nig:i want to do a housewarming
Bia:but when bia and I come to your apartment with freakum dresses on and red lipstick, pretending on being dressed to go out after the housewarming, she will take one look at us and forbid you
#justsayin
you underestimate how sexy i can be
and we all know bia is a harlot
me:hahahahaha
me:Well bia he does have to let you go
that's why the whole male/female friend dynamic is complicated
I lose respect for my guy friends if they get a girl that they like and still are wreckless
BUT
I don't want them to stop being my friend. But lets keep it real. Men are rarely friends with females that they aren't sexually attracted to.
But a good friend in that situation knows their place, steps back and lets their friend have a shot with their boo thang. Cause dudes are simpletons... and unless they're friends with ugly chicks there's always gonna be that line that could possibly get crossed. Heck, even ugly chicks ain't safe if some dude's dun had a couple drinks
Bia:i mean this I know
nig is the one thats in denial
me:he is
and AGAIN
you just want him to fess up to it
and he isn't
smh
why can't dudes just be real?
Bia:haha
and I hate that Nig can't just level with me
in his girls eyes I'm a former bustdown
me:You'd respect him more if he could just be honest. You already know the deal
Bia:especially if she knows our history
me:he just doesn't understand that
either way Evan is losing
because if his girl DOESN'T know you all's history then he's not being honest with wifey
and if she DOES know y'alls history then she probably isn't comfortable with y'all being friends
Bia:exactly
talking about just come and act right
huh
me:hahaha
boooo
can't have it both ways nig
we too old for that sh*t.